I’m not doing well at the internet dating thing.
By not doing well, I mean I’m on week 2, I’ve been on 2 dates and I haven’t found the love of my life. Actually, I haven’t found someone I want to see again. I’m also not doing well at getting guys to message me. Or respond to the messages I send.
If you know me in real life, you know that I have a particular approach to challenges.
Find the problem. Make sure that’s the problem. Fix the problem. Move on.
Ok. I don’t know what the problem is. Something strange in my bio? I got a few male friends to look at my bio. They thought it was fine (and they’ve done online dating, and I’d be happy to find someone like either of them). So, that’s not it.
I don’t have kids. Well, I can see that might be a thing. I’ve put a note in my bio that says I don’t have kids, but I do have 12 nieces and nephews, so I’m fine if they do.
I’m short. Ummm. Well, that’s not really something I can fix.
Wrong Photo? Ok, fine, let’s try another one.
It also occurs to me, this may not be a problem that numbers can solve.